These days, I revel in the applause my son Tarun gets when he goes on stage. However, it was not always like this. When I saw him forget his lines and freeze up on the podium at the Economist Ideas Economy Information Summit eight years ago, my heart literally sank. I wanted to rush up and give him a big hug and say “it’s okay son, it wasn’t a big deal, don’t worry about it”. Tarun had worked day and night to be prepared for his first big talk. He memorized every word of a 12-minute long presentation. And then he forgot his lines.
I will never forget the anguish on his face.
Tarun did manage to muddle his way through the talk. The moderator also came to his rescue—knowing that any 23-year old would have difficulty speaking to an audience of 400 business executives and academics at one of the most prestigious conferences in the world.
Tarun’s mistake was that had no notes in his hand and no PowerPoint to remind him of the key points that he wanted to make. He thought this would be like giving a speech in high school—which he had done very well. Believe me, he has used his experience at the Economist Conference to practice relentlessly and is now an awesome speaker!
I too made the same mistakes when I gave my first talks. I underestimated how intimidating it could be to be on a big stage with bright lights shining—and everyone staring at me.
When I think back, I realize that I used to be really lousy at public speaking. I could never captivate the audience. I could never make people pay attention. I doubt anyone would have listened to me even if I paid them money. So I used to avoid this.
That was then. I now speak at major conferences and at universities every week. I can't keep up with all the speaking requests that I get. And I get big speaking fees! That’s how far I’ve been able to come.
This came with practice and perseverance. Let me share some of the lessons I’ve learned.
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