There are a lot of opponents—both good (kids, jobs, activities) and bad (financial pressures, addiction, health issues)—competing for the intimacy in your marriage. With all the busyness, it becomes too easy to live on the surface—pretending things are good, when they’re really not. And the next thing you know you feel like you’re just going through the motions, or worse yet, you make your spouse out to be the opponent. Yet, we lead and work best when our marriage is strong, when our spouse is our greatest teammate, and we fight for, not against, each other. Doing so requires going deeper than you might have imagined, but you’ll be surprised at how doable it is with just 15 minutes a day.