The Mother of Dragons

Josh Linkner

Josh Linkner

Five-time tech entrepreneur, hyper-growth CEO, NY Times bestselling author and venture capitalist.

Spoiler Alert! (if you haven't caught up on GOT, stop reading and JUMP to "SPOILER START" below)

Wow. How incredible that the woman who built her career on kindness and empathy turned every heartfelt follower to ash this week. The power of the loyalty that she built was, prior to this week, unstoppable. Her motives pure and sincere, and those that fought for her bravely, often died for the causes that all of us can relate to: humanity, love, mercy, equality, freedom. We watched her in absolute awe - struck by her beauty, mostly exuding from within. She gave us hope, for leadership and the human experience. Perhaps if she takes the Iron Throne, the world will be a better place - both inside the show and outside.

But, this week, as we held our breath and watched in horror, she brought us all to our knees. We begged her: please don't do as your father. Please remember the children. Please don't do it, Khaleesi. We know you have morals and can help right the wrongs of injustice.

SPOILER START

In the world of business, we follow all sorts of leaders. Some are powerful through fear, aligning their troops through dictatorship and directives. Some leaders can command based on manipulation, using toxic weapons of peer pressure, cliques, politics and even bullying. Some are very clever – they hide until the work is done, and push their way to the front for the credit, looking to world as the master of production.

On the other hand, we've hopefully all had the pleasure of following leaders that had the special spark of what led us further, much further driven by the ideal, the goal, the vision of a deeper value or cause. These leaders show humanity - understanding the art and science of mixing the human experience into daily work. These leaders can give more of themselves, because they believe that we are all humans at the core.

These leaders are firm, but fair. They don't carry themselves ABOVE us; they carry themselves as ONE OF US. They help us realize our mistakes are necessary, in order to innovate and adapt. They have the long-game in mind, and therefore nurture and cherish relationships because relationships feed esteem, team-building and collaboration because these are at the core of winning long-term. They invest in people, not things. These leaders are confident, kind, and they get results because they are fierce in their drive to win, but not willing to win in a single instance at the detriment of others. They liberate their teams to be free to think outside the box and take risks that are necessary to winning. They rule with a firm hand that is encouraging, not based in fear.

And, these, the leaders that we'd follow through the Red Waste, are not ruthless, and never willing to mow down all of the people in their path.

So the lesson to us is clear: It is in our toughest moments in the moment of truth, the moment when your teams need you the most that the character of leadership will be the most impressive. Those leaders who retreat to the dark shadows of fear, insecurity, and selfishness will never prevail as a leader in the end. But those who act with courage, compassion and bring forth the guiding light of the shared vision, will continue to build throngs of people ready to serve, battle, and support.

Be the type of leader who sincerely rallies for a better future. Remain the beacon of light for which the team will see the virtuous possibilities of the future. Or torch your followers and end up a Mad King or Queen.”

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