The world is crying out for a different kind of leadership and a different level of humanity.
To become a transformational leader in a fiercely complex and troubled world, the first
challenge is to become a bigger human being. That requires seeing more, feeling more, andavoiding less. It means actively challenging the blind spots, biases, fixed beliefs, habits, andfears that hold each of us back, mostly invisibly.
Only by understanding yourself more deeply can you bring the best of who you are to the mostvexing challenges you face. A whole leader draws not just on the mind, but also on the heart,the body, and the spirit.
To live a more whole life requires building a bridge between your inner world and your outerworld. Our most difficult struggles originate inside us, but they’re also the gateway to ourdeepest wisdom and the fullest range of our resources. “The only way out,” wrote Robert Frost,“is through.”
Instead, we invest endless hours getting things done, without taking sufficient time for
reflection, rest, and renewal. We keep countless plates spinning, celebrating breadth rather
than depth. We rarely stop to ask ourselves “Is the best life I’m capable of leading?” and ‘Am Ithe best leader I could be?”
Our intrinsic and essential goodness is a birthright that many of us don’t even recognize we
have. Imagine the leader you could be if you were consistently able to access your wisest,
calmest, and most open-hearted self. Instead, even the most senior leaders struggle silentlywith a core fear: that they’re not good enough.
Paradoxically, the more energy we spend defending our value, the less energy we have to
create value. When you have the courage to embrace all of who you are -- – including the partsyou wish you didn’t have – there is nothing left to defend. Only then are you freed to takebetter care of yourself, and better care of others.
Leadership isn’t about exercising power. It’s about using your influence to fuel, inspire,, and
advocate for others. When you commit to your own growth, you simultaneously serve the
growth of those you lead and influence.
Takeaways:
- Better understand the unconscious forces that drive you as a leader, because you can’t change what you don’t notice.
- Recognize the role that your internal “defenders” play in the choices you make as a leader, and in the rest of your life.
- Learn what it looks like to draw simultaneously on all four sources of your intelligence: mind, body, heart, and spirit